It's a magical moment, but it's so monumental that many couples are nervous about it beforehand.  So, what are the rules about 'The Kissing Business'?

Well, I don’t really believe in rules - it's entirely up to you.  Whatever you are most comfortable with is my best advice.

So, here's some tips I've picked up along the way from working at hundreds of weddings:

1. Don’t be embarrassed about asking the person conducting your ceremony to get out of the photographer's way for 'The Kiss'. They should instinctively do that (BUT, I've seen some registrars stand almost slap bang in between the couple like a great big gooseberry...).  It's worth double-checking this beforehand.  You don't want the back of someone else's head in the middle of the crucial shot... (it happens...!)

2. Kiss a few times, not just once - this gives your photographer the best opportunity of capturing that special moment.

3. Should we practice beforehand? If you want to, but there’s also something magical about a spontaneous moment.  I've seen a groom unexpectedly sweep his bride off her feet as he went in for a dip kiss, catching everyone by surprise (including himself!).

4. The kissing doesn't have to be restricted to when the celebrant says so - one very kissy couple couldn't stop kissing each other at key moments throughout their ceremony. Very sweet!

5. Remember to kiss during your exit at the end of the ceremony too. You can do that as the celebrant announces you out to your guests.

6. As you walk down the aisle together, pause to kiss once or twice - this lets your guests at the back get a close-up of that special moment, and it's great for your photos.

7. And, if you're not comfortable kissing in front of all your friends and family - that's ok.  Your celebrant should check this with you.  But if they don't mention it, it's OK to ask them to miss the kissing business out altogether or replace it with an alternative in that part of the ceremony. 

It’s perfectly ok to have a quick peck on the cheek or hug, whatever you are comfortable doing,   I have seen a groom punch his bride gently on the shoulder.... affection takes many forms!

As I say, there's no rules - you do you!